Those who surround you

We evolve into our future selves based on experiences. The quality of such experiences can be determined by those whom with we share them. Some might argue that they are better off on their own, where they can live their own lives, doing what they want when they want. But a life without friendships or companionship is a life half lived.

I can admit that having some alone time is quite blissful. After living in a two-bedroom apartment with eight other guys, and a dog, a little bit of 'me-time' was something that I cherished. There was a time when I came to think that I would be better off doing my own thing, in order to save myself from any pain. Setting myself aside from everything brought me to further my love for photography, and to refine my skills in which I am grateful for today. Solitude became addicting. But deep down I knew I couldn't continue on like this. The life of solitude I become accustomed to would soon devour me. However, after moving to a different location I found a new beginning. The things that were most important in my life started to stand out, like a black spot on a white page. I began to lament not being with the people that meant the most to me in my life, whether they be on the other side of the world, or in different states.

Having spent 4 years in America, studying, working and playing football, I have met hundreds of unforgettable people from around the world. But leaving and saying goodbye is never easy. For those that mean the most but are so far away, there is so much to be said, but it is almost pointless in saying it. The moment would be ruined by going into details and taking several minutes with what should take a few emotional seconds.

I have always wanted to capture true emotion in my images, especially in my candid shots. I wish I could go back in time and see my previous self while saying goodbye to the people that meant the most to me. Agitated, and all over the place, I think that I would not be myself. I would act like a nervous and uncomfortable wreck who is unclear on where the next step is. The question of ‘what super power would you have?’ is asked around in different settings. Going back with my camera to capture true emotions would be the power I would chose.

It is the people I am with, and without, that bring out these emotions. And I am thankful for that. There’s no need to mentions names, they know who they are, and they've irrevocably changed my life.